So I ended JB's birthday post with our wrap up of a great September, and then we've moved into a slight dumpster fire of an October. Just kidding, certainly not as bad as it could have been (we're grateful), but geez...
After feeling a little run down after JB's birthday, James decided that he should go get tested for COVID "just in case" on October 1st. We were planning a very small party for JB on October 3rd, and with family and friends coming over - even outside - it seemed the prudent thing to do. And thank goodness he did, because the test came back positive.
SHOCKED US ALL. James and I have been so careful. James did attend one function that was questionable and we now know is where he caught the virus (as many, many others did, too). It goes to show - the safest, least risky route for our community is to stay home.
Looking back, that day is a total blur. I left work without saying a word to anyone, grabbed Maryn from preschool, got us tested, came home and we said bye to Ms. Therlon for 2 weeks, took the boys up to the doctor, then got home and processed. Fortunately James was not feeling that bad after he tested positive, and me and the kids all tested negative. James packed a bag and moved up to the garage apartment, and me and the kiddos stared at each other for a bit. You better believe I started praying and texting my prayer warriors because I knew this Mama needed patience, calm, and peace of mind. And, because He's faithful, I got it.
James started to feel bad the next day and it went downhill from there. He ran a fever for 10 days, his body worked to fight the virus (leaving him pretty puny), and the mental toil of anxiety and worry should not be overlooked! What a rough 2 weeks! I felt helpless from afar, leaving his meals on the steps three times a day, FaceTiming with the kids throughout the day, and watching him sit far away while we played outside. Again, the mental and emotional side of the illness...
BUT, thank God, James' symptoms (though tough) stayed in the "mild to moderate" range, and he never struggled with breathing issues. And the kids and I never got sick (testing negative as we left our quarantine AND I tested negative for the antibodies, which absolutely shocked me.)
James and I celebrated 11 years of marriage on September 26th. Our intentions were for a little anniversary getaway in mid October, when I usually write our anniversary post and all about how much I love this man of mine...
So obviously that did not happen. And I'm not sure if a trip will happen this year. But I don't even care about that. I am so, so grateful that he is healthy, that he made it through the illness without serious complications, and that he's back under our roof and with his family where it belongs. Never take your health or the health of your loved ones for granted, not even for a second.
AND WEAR YOUR MASKS, STAY AT HOME, FOLLOW THE RULES!
Also, because I want to remember our two week quarantine period, photo dump for the days at home below. What I had feared would be the longest, hardest two weeks actually felt like a true blessing and joy to me. Sometimes working Mamas can miss out on a lot of little things at home, and playing SAHM/Domestic Diva for 14 days felt pretty good. I enjoyed the time and will treasure those special memories!
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We cancelled JB's party, but I did NOT cancel the bouncy house for the weekend! |
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Maryn proclaimed she wouldn't brush her hair for our entire quarantine :) |
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We had picnics nearly every day for lunch. Weather was GORGEOUS
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Big Sister got ahold of the hair chalk...
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Chopsticks!
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A friend brought JB a lego set for his birthday!
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JB lost a tooth!
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Homecoming week meant lots of TP in the neighborhood
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Wesley discovered Pout Pout!
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Wes "helped" me decorate for Fall
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Texas / OU game
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about 18 OTs later...we lost
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JB doing a kick boxing workout with me
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| Couldn't make it the full 30 mins... |
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| Friends brought us so much great food and treats! |
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Mama got creative with lunches, too
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Nailed it
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Lots of helpers when I cook
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| Not gonna lie, we enjoyed some McD's breakfast, too |
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| ...in our PJs... |
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I also enjoyed some vino and entertaining Netflix TV (like Indian Matchmaking!!!) |
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While I'm no Dakota (JB's tutor), we managed to attend all classes and keep up with his studies
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My social butterfly, Maryn, took advantage of technology to stay connected to her friends! |
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And every day, the kids would make cards for their Daddy :)
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Reminder of God's promises to us
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He is good, all the time And all the time, He is good! |